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How to Run an Investment Banking Coffee Chat

A coffee chat is an interview in disguise. What to ask, how to prepare, the email template to use, and the mistakes that kill your shot at a referral.

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Michael Neal·7 min read·updated August 2026
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Coffee Chat Fundamentals

A coffee chat is a 30-minute conversation with a banker: casual in tone, evaluative in function. Treat it as an interview no matter how it was framed.

You are there to do four things:

  1. Collect intelligence you will reuse later: why this firm material, how the group recruits, what the seat is like
  2. Turn the banker into an ally
  3. Form your own read on the group: culture, deal flow, whether you would want to work there
  4. End by asking who else you should speak to

First rounds go to candidates someone inside is pushing, and that push starts here. The names you leave with become your next chats.

Keep it a friendly professional conversation: cheerful, positive, prepared. You are there for advice, and you actually want the answers. Bankers advocate for people they enjoyed talking to; the referral takes care of itself.

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